Being scared to plan

As I mentioned in one of my last posts, the Newbie and I have talked extensively about me having this need to plan and him having this need to be spontaneous. The thing I’m having the biggest problem with at this point is that I am sometimes scared to ask him in advance to do something. I know it stresses him out and that makes me incredibly hesitant to ask him to put something on his calendar.

I’ve told him it makes me scared to ask and he has assured me that I should not feel that way. I still do though!  So how can I get over that? Have you ever dealt with a similar situation? I know it’s not healthy to be scared to ask your BF to do something…so I need some good tips!!!  Help me…



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