I was talking to my College BFF tonight after she had a weekend full of drama. Basically, one of her husband’s groomsman went to strip club and his live-in girlfriend freaked out. The girlfriend then described to the College BFF pictures she saw from her husbands own bachelor party. While the pictures weren’t anything too surprising for a strip club experience, it hit her hard for several reasons. The biggest issue at this point and the reason for this post is her confusion to what is acceptable now as married adults.
As a married couple, is it acceptable to go to strip clubs? And while at those strip clubs is it okay to get a lap dance or go up on stage? We both came to the conclusion, that whatever the decision between the couple is, it has to be consistent. So if the guy can go so can the gal.
My big thing is, if you wouldn’t feel comfortable doing it in the company of your significant other…it isn’t acceptable to do it without that person around. Would it be okay to be at a bar and get a lap dance from a random girl? My personal opinion is no. I understand my guy might have to go to a strip club for a “special occasion,” but I think in those cases it should be all look and no touch.
What are your thoughts on the matter?